CTM Episode 27: “How To Treat Women” - Tony Dungy Uncommon

In today's episode Anthony and Isaiah discuss the lessons on how treat women from Tony Dungy's book Uncommon. 

When you are around women you shouldn't act like the big tough guy, but you also should act just like a nice timid guy. Don't put up some fake persona because if you do she will eventually figure it out. 

Make sure you honor women with respect in direct and indirect ways.

Direct ways would be uplifting her with you words or holding the door for her, be purposeful and active in doing nice things for her. Indirect ways would be respecting her friends and family. If her friends and family love you, then she will feel love from you as well. 

Make sure you are present with her, not just physically but mentally. Make sure you are paying attention to her when you are with her and that you aren't distracted. When you give her your full attention she will know it and she will love you for it. 

Listen to her, not to solve her problems, just to let her know that you are there for her,

but you have to be actively listening. If you are listening half way or not paying attention you will only make things worse. 

Remember that God is not only your father, but hers as well, and remember that God so loved her that he gave his one and only son for her. 

If you are single take your time in finding the one.

Pray that God will reveal her to you. It will be important that your basic values in life are in alignment, but in order for you to know if your basic values are in alignment you will have to spend time determining your own values and whats most important to you. 

Thanks for listening, we really appreciate it, and we cant wait to see you on the next episode of CTM!